Letters from a Young Radical

I find it really funny when guys (usually it's men) say "I'm not homophobic, but I'm really not cool with gay guys hitting on me". Now. I don't think there's anything wrong with feeling that way. After all, I'm sexually attracted to men, but I don't like it when they hit on me either. That doesn't make me heterophobic.

But I also don't feel the need to bring it up. Which makes me feel like that statement reveals a remaining homophobia, even if the person has enough sense to realize that it's not a good thing.